A friend and I were writing each other about falling in love.  Here’s what I offered: here’s the thing, when we fall in love we fall hard.  it’s big and beautiful and we see things like great grandkids.  every moment is full of symbols and fireworks from the divine.  it’s alive and electric and we crave it like water. it makes for great storytelling and imbues life with a deep meaning and kickass joy. so here’s the thing: the trick is to find that within first. i know it’s not sexy (though it can be – hello!) but first fall in love with yourself and life. get really clear within about what makes you so special, beautiful, talented, wise, kind, creative, and powerful. an amazing spiritual teacher once said, “Who you are seeking is who is seeking”. just sit with that, breathe it in and watch your whole world change.