A friend taught me recently that if you look at the other person’s elbow when you high-five, you’ll never miss.  They’re absolutely right.  How cool is that.  Focus on something other than the desired result and you’ll get the thing you most want.  So here’s the question:  What’s the “high-five” you’re currently seeking?  What is it that you most want to experience?  Now instead of focusing on that shift your attention off the result and over to a part of the process.  Remember the old chestnut Happiness is like a butterfly.  If you chase it, it will elude you, but if you turn your attention to other things, it comes and sits quietly on your shoulder.